It hasn't even been two weeks, and I feel like I've already done and learned so much...even from just a week ago. Some oddities of France (or at least from the experience I've had in the house)
-There is a lot of food in the house. Flo has at least 3 of everything she buys at the grocery store.
-The door handles and faucet handles are never round knobs, they stick out sideways
-Toilets aren't in the "bathrooms," or even attached to them.
-The way the house is run is very systematic....there's a rhyme and reason for everything - especially the laundry and dishwasher routine. Since electricity is 50% off after 11, we have to set the machines in advance so they only run while we sleep....I do not come from a tech-savvy family, so there's a learning curve for me.
-Most of you probably know that in Europe, stores close early (5pm-7pm). On Sunday's the only thing open is the grocery store until 12:30pm.
My general schedule Monday-Friday is:
Wake up at 6:45, get myself dressed (no hair or makeup)
Bring Arthur out of his parent's bed (he goes in their room when his alarm goes off at 6:45), and dress him - he's pretty cranky in the morning (or anytime he wakes up from a nap) and loves to tell me "Je suis fatige!!!" :-?
Wake up Victoire… change, and clothe her
Bring Victoire downstairs and put her in her seat, prepare her bottle (she can feed it to herself)
Make breakfast for Arthur and myself while Flo and Yves are getting ready, they come down around 7:15 for their breakfast.
Arthur and Flo leave at 7:30 for school and work.
Victoire and I leave anytime between 7:45 and 8:15. Yves leaves for work sometime shortly after us on his motorcycle. I drive Victoire to her Nanny's apartment in Saleve (about 15 minute drive). I have to ring in and say, "C'est Jenna et Victoire." Her name is Guida, she's Portuguese but speaks French and a little English. She loooooooves Victoire. Victoire is a really good baby. She’s easier, for me, than Arthur….probably because she can’t talk.
So from about 9am-3:30pm, I am "off" as are the hours of most au pairs. Meaning, I have the day to myself. I will start French classes later, and now have a membership to Vitmin Parc (which I'll talk about later), so I'm sure some studying and exercise would be a good use of my time, but this week, I was exhausted just from all of the French immersion and schedule, and assimilating in general, not to mention learning to drive, making friends, and figuring out my place here.
On Mondays and Fridays Edwarda (the housekeeper) comes to clean the whole house and iron. She's also Portuguese, and speaks NO English....but she's very nice. It's a little strange being in the house with her cleaning though. When I think I’m a lone, I don’t like someone else around, not knowing what time to expect her arrival or departure. I've never had a housekeeper. When she's around she can help with Arthur though because her French is better than mine. He gets frustrated and is tired by the end of the day when I pick him up from a day at school where his teachers only speak English (he’s in an English immersion preschool)....so I'm sure the last thing he wants to do is listen to me tell him what to do at home in English. I've been able to talk to him in French, but I'm sure it's a lot slower and not the same phrases and tone of voice his parents use to discipline him. I’ve heard them…when he does something bad, they speak very quickly to him….so usually I can’t even understand. For me, he speaks very slurred French, with a lot of spitting involved, so it's harder to understand him than an adult, unless he just says nouns….but I have to ask him direct questions to communicate. He's not even 4 yet, so it's hard for him to slow down his speech/train of thought. When I ask Flo and Yves what he says, I know the words when they repeat what he says, so my ear is going to need to be trained for "kid French."
Picking up Arthur from College Du Lemain (CDL) http://www.cdl.ch/default.asp?bhcp=1 is quite an event. When I drive onto the campus in Versoix, I feel like I'm driving and walking amongst the elitists of the world. It is an extremely wealthy school, and there are kids of all ages and nationalities waiting for their parents to roll up in their Mercedes and Audis. The worst part is waiting in the line of traffic on a hill, driving a stick shift. I need to start using the E-brake when I go into first gear so I don't roll back into one of the 6 figure vehicles I see in my rear-view mirror. When I'm walking to Arthur's school, I always wonder if people who see me think I'm a mother or a student. Everyone there should be able to speak English, but I hear passing conversations in many languages. Arthur doesn't like to leave what he's doing, so it's hard to get him off the playground, and to the parking lot. He falls asleep after 5 minutes of driving though, as we leave Geneva and cross the border, so at least I can relax and listen to the radio during the drive (Virgin Radio, Yes FM, LaRadio, Nostalgic are my favs). We go right to France to pick up Victoire. I just let Arthur sleep in the car while I get Victoire. Guida tells me when the last time she ate was, and if she needs me to bring anything for Victoire next time (like a change of clothes or any baby supplies like formula or diaper cream). If it's nice outsie, and they're both in a good mood after their car naps, we go to the playground by the house. Otherwise we just play inside, I give them their baths, and put Victoire to bed at 7pm. I make Arthur dinner, and usually I'm hungry for dinner by then so I have a little of what he's having. At the earliest, Yves comes home at 7:30 (earlier if he knows I need to be somewhere that night). Arthur isn't good at going to sleep until one of his parents gets home.
On Monday, I met Flo at Vitmin Parc for a free Body Jam class....”try it and buy it” kind of thing. Later in the week, when Flo had off, we took the kids to Vitmin Parc and got a family membership, so I can use it and take Arthur their on Wednesdays (when he only has school in the morning). Body Jam was soooooo much fun, and a great way to end my first day. Flo met me there right from work. Even though the instructor was speaking French, I was able to follow everything she did up on stage. She was very energetic, leading the class with her hair down (which surprised me) and made the whole atmosphere loads of fun. Great music too. The fitness gear is much cuter here. Most women wear tight black spandex pants, and I don’t think sports bras are as popular here haha…not too many tshirts and soccer shorts either. There were probably 50 people (mostly females) outside in front of the shopping center learning the hip hop routine. Flo really likes the cheesecake and brioche from McDonald's, so she thought we "earned" it after the class. She brought some home and we had cheesecake after dinner with Yves and brioche the next morning for breakfast.
Every time I've gone somewhere new, I use the GPS. Of course, it's in French, but so far, when it actually detects a satellite signal, it's been helpful. One night last week, I met some of my friends in Geneva for Hooka, the Middle Eastern flavored smoking contraptions. My GPS was not so trusty getting me home from that though, reading “position en cours 0%” …. so when it doesn't pick up a satellite, I get verrrrry frustrated because I just have to keep driving (on unknown roads in Geneva) until it works! I did have a map with me, but it's too hard to use in the dark (and it happened to be raining that night), while driving a stick shift, and still be aware of the circles and crazy roads and drivers. Once I get out of the downtown, I can follow signs to the highway, and France and get myself home now, but for the first few days, I DID get lost!
One day between dropping off Victoire and picking up Arthur at 3:30, I met up with Natalia, a very experienced au pair who's been in Geneva for 2.5 years. She showed me around the old town and "Rive" for shopping and a little of the banking district. We met near an area with a flea market, which is nothing like the old "Silver Spring Flea Market"....it is more so true in Geneva that "one [Swiss] man's junk is another [American] man's treasure" http://www.geneva.info/shopping/ I took lots of pictures, and definitely want to go back to explore more thorough and actually do some shopping. She took me to a tpg office, where we took a number and waited for about a half hour, with aims of getting me my discount Swiss travel card (for those under age 25…phew, just made it). Sadly, after waiting we were told that they do not issue the cards there, and I had paid for the wrong size ID photos – frustrating….I was starting to feel the annoyances found in Australia of queuing and waiting and bureaucracy BS. We took a chance guessing at the photo size, but we wouldn’t have had time to wait with our number, just to ask the question, and draw another number after I had the picture taken.
Thursday was a Geneva holiday (founding of the city day I think), so Flo was home. We slept in and had pancakes...it felt like a weekend. Our plan was to go register the family at Vitmin Parc (http://www.vitamparc.com/). This is a complex that houses a gym, largest climbing wall in Europe, water park, indoor/outdoor heated pools, spa, shops, restaurants, and Migros grocery store, all owned by Migros. Migros is a company that owns a lot of different types of businesses in France and Switzerland (kind of like Virgin or LG) including cell phone companies, gas stations, grocery stores, fitness centers, furniture stores, garden centers, hotels, golf courses, language schools, book stores, travel companies, and even railways. There was a long wait to sign up for membership because there was a special promotion running. The kids did not like waiting, and Victoire is heavy, so we sat in some chairs off to the side, while Flo waited. I even took the stroller up and walked the kids around the mall area. We were given a tour of the fitness facilities and pool. Whoever comes to visit - we MUST go here - it's really impressive and fun...especially the "aqua gyme" (waterpark). We got our pictures taken for our membership cards - which of course are horrible since we weren't wearing makeup. After the locker room "fun" we were in the aqua gyme where I played and followed Arthur around to the different areas, pools (indoor and out), and slides. If anyone asked, we said, "Tu as six ans".... There were pretty many English speakers visiting, but I didn't go out on any limbs to let people know I wasn't French haha. This holiday was a very special day for the kids (and me!) because Flo took us to the drive through McDonalds, and we brought it home at around 3:30, starved from playing at the pool. Victoire was sooooo fussy from missing her nap. Flo sent the kids upstairs (Victoire to bed) and we watched "Twilight" which neither of us had seen and split a McDonald's chocolate chip cookie and had tea. It was nice to relax, because Flo's "day off" was actually more tiring than a normal day, for both of us! I only got to see an hour of the movie though because I had to go to Nyon for the Link meeting, but was first stopping by Natalia's apartment in Geneva. She offered to drive since I've never driven there, and since it was a holiday, there was free parking near her apartment.
After the meeting, some of us went out to Fisherman (aka "Fish") in Nyon….I did NOT want to get up at 6:45 the next morning, and after dropping off Victoire, came home and took a 2 hour nap. That day, I also finally got my Voie-sept/demi-tarrif (half off transportation in Geneva, and Free trains in Geneva after 7pm) at the airport train station on my way to pick up Arthur. Flo said she wanted to try the Waaf class at Vitmin Parc, so Yves was home by 7:20. The class was at 7:30, so I was a little late, but it was okay. Again, of course, all in French, but I was fine. I had never seen or heard of a Waff class. I'm not sure if we have them in the US, but here's what it looks like:
http://il.youtube.com/watch?v=UWhGPJLrplY&feature=related
I wasn't as sore today as I expected....but I do feel it in my abs, back, and legs. I'm looking at the schedule of classes to see what I will be able to take once I start French in Annecy (about half hour away), and have Victoire to babysit on Wednesdays. It will be interesting trying to take both of them to the aqua gym by myself. I think Flo and I will do Body Jam on Monday nights. Tuesday and Friday, I would have to just do my own thing in the morning since I'll have my class in the afernoons. I would do Body Balance on Wednesday nights…maybe I’ll need the serenity of this class after a full day with the kids. Thursday, I hope to take the RPM class at 12:30, especially since the trainer said it's not too busy at that time. I got into this class on a pretty regular basis, with my friends in Australia, at Macquarie Fitness. Ha - who knows if I'll actually stick to this plan...but it should be doable for me.
Finally, “Sante” - my inspiration for this blog was what my friends and I said all day at the wine festival in Fechy. More about that in my Facbook album. All I can say is that every day I think that I've seen the most beautiful places, and then the next day surprises me. Fechy was really one of the best days ever. Could it get any better than sunshine, local wine, vineyards, friends, and cheese in the Swiss Alpes?